| Location | Hackney,london |
| Age | 22 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 10/04/1975 |
| Date of Death | 07/11/1997 |
| Visitors | 846 since 02/07/2007 |
| Creator |
Well, what can I say about my son James? He was born on 10th April 1975. He was the second child of
4.
As a baby he never slept,he was a sicky baby and he always cried,but I loved him.
As a toddler he got into all sorts of scapes,some very dangerous to himself and sometimes
others,but I loved him.
When he first went to school he was always getting into trouble with his teachers and his
headmaster,and they wanted to expel him at 6 years old, but I loved him.
All through his school years he would get in to all sorts of trouble with the police, he went to
prison a number of times, after doing some terrible things, but I stood by him every step of the
way, because I loved him.
As an adult he had begun to realise what he wanted out of life and made a turn around for the better
and had started to take responsibility for his actions. Unfortunately,6 months before he passed away
we had a silly falling out, like you do with your children.We were both too stubborn to make the
first move, so James died without us ever making up ,and for that I will always feel terribly
guilty.
But you love your children unconditionally and no matter what James ever did to me and his other
sibings,I would go through it all again and more, just to see him and be able to say SORRY SON!!! I
LOVE YOU VERY MUCH
There's not a day goes by when I dont think about you James
I know you are still around me and for that I am grateful.
God Bless you son! and R.I.P. until we meet again.
Anniversary
James, I can't believe its that time of the year again. Another year has passed.It's 12 years since you left this life but it still feels like it was yesterday. The pain doesn't get any easier. just different. I often wonder what you would have been doing had you still been with us. I know you was with me yesterday Bennyboy sensed it too and for that I'm grateful.
Love you always
Mum xxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi babe, sorry it was only a short message the other day but wanted you to know about Elisa and to watch her, Would like to wish you a very happy birthday, all of us born in April need to stick together!! hope you had a relaxing one, floating on a cloud. I had a lovely message from your Mum the other day, I hope she is keeping well, would just like to say that you will never be forgotten in anyones eyes, and I know I dont get on here very often but your were and will always be my cousin, my Mum would like to come on but as you know she cant even visit Nanny's tribute, one day she will. Make sure you keep Nanny company and give her lots of tea, and continue to shine over everyone that loves and misses you, God Bless babe.
Speak soon xxx
Birthday
So sorry James I couldnt get to see you on your birthday,but as you know Ive broke my foot.It's the first time in 12 years since you passed away, that I haven't visited I will come and see you very soon. Please forgive me
Love you very much and missing you still, Im glad Nuggi came to see you and you were not on your own on your birthday
R.I.P Son
Love Mum
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi babe, sorry its been so long, would just like you to watch over Elisa with Nanny she needs all the support to keep her strong and to fight it so make sure you 2 watch over her even more, God Bless you, xxx
Im sorry I didnt call
Hello Sean (sorry Ang, I knew him as Sean!!!!), I bet you never thought you'd hear from me again eh? I found this by chance y'know.
Listen, I wanna say sorry for not calling when I had promised to. It wasnt a case of not calling, but Id just gone back to plymouth and in the process lost the number you gave me. I did ask Uncle Geoffrey if he could get it for me again. Unfortunately, time was not on my side. You were gone before I got it. Ive felt a lot of guilt in the last ten years mate- the what if's and if only's. Its something I have to live with as I know I'll never get the answer. Just know Sean, that I DID intend on calling you!! I was so chuffed to see you after all them years! I liked you, you were a funny sod. Ive only got 1 pic of you and your brother George- was at some birthday party way back in the 70's. I think it was at Auntie Valeries place?
Well, Sean, I hope you found the peace you were searching for. And I hope you're looking after Nan. Take care,
Kelley xxx
Love you loads
Thinking of you every day things are not any easier even after all this time.
I wish you could see Kian he's nearly 2 now and getting more like you every day, you would love him so much as we all do.He's quite a strong character just like you were when you were his age. Look after him and guide him. He picks up your picture and looks at it every time he comes round home
Love you loads
Mum & Garry
xxxxxx
Would like to wish you a happy birthday, all of us born in April need to stick together!!! make sure you give nanny a big birthday kiss and cuddle on the 19th, I know she would love that, and maybe give her a cup of tea!!, keep watching over all your family and keep them safe and well, speak to you soon xx
new year
We would like to wish you a happy new year, it's gonna be hard for a lot of people today knowing your not here so keep watch over them and keep themsafe and strong. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Anniversary
Son,
I can't believe it's been ten years since I lost you,where have the years gone. I visited you on wednesday,your annivesary,but then you know that. For me,it's still so vivid,
the pain,the emptiness,the guiltiness, but you know, no matter what I will always love you, I would do everything all over again just to see you.
God Bless Son
xxxxxxxxxx
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